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Post by Darth Wong » Mon Jan 10, 2005 9:21 pm
Hey guys (and girls), i am aware a man whom, well, why don’t we simply say he’s perhaps perhaps not done well he can’t find a girl for himself in life, and. The thing is that inside the desperation, he hooked up with some body within the Philippines on the internet. Now here is the part that is crazy he states he’s got currently decided to marry her (after just once you understand her for a couple days and not having even met her once) and intends to get here in March to get married. I might genuinely believe that “reckless” is definitely an understatement right here.
Anyhow, first thing that came in your thoughts had been that she desired to utilize him to obtain citizenship right here. But are there even greater potential risks him about that I should be warning? Do any one of you realize of any frauds with this, like people kidnapping the unwary groom that is would-be he turns up to marry this girl he is never ever met? I have heard about that in certain full situations because of the Nigerian money-laundering scam.
I guess an optimist would argue that possibly this thing that is whole legit, but We’m an excessive amount of a cynic to purchase that. I believe this person is likely to get scammed or worse. If any one of you realize of any horror tales involving this kind of thing, inform me and possibly i will frighten him using them.
Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:20 am
Well, I dont have whole stories, but I would personally be VERY carful about this (while you are already). Your buddy has absolutely absolutely absolutely nothing limiting him from going, but i might decide to try EVERYTHING feasible to obtain him to believe it over.
I will be 99% certain this example will perhaps not come out inside the benefit, just just exactly how numerous girls seriously like to simply satisfy a guy online and marry him?. Many likley, she’s going to dump him the moment she becomes clear and american that is free or something like that else is tucked up her sleeve.
Post by smithy_dll » Tue Jan 11, 2005 5:42 am
We thought Darth Wong had been canadian,
Well i might need to trust using the care and presuming it is a fraud. He’s no evidence she actually exists, wether she actually is actually a lady, had been constantly a lady, and extremely really loves him.
Whats also wear could be the wedding is finished there, rather than in a safe place that is democratic would not tollerate any type of mal-bahaviour.
He is using risks that are several,
Post by erk » Tue Jan 11, 2005 8:56 am
Post by starfoxtj » Tue Jan 11, 2005 9:00 am
Well, i’m maybe not too against internet dating, but, he should at LEAST arrive at know her far better. Exchange pictures, talk in the phone, or make use of a cam (at the least to be sure its a girl your talking to! ).
But actually, internet relationship can be achieved, but I dont think you should get hitched after just once you understand them for a couple days.
Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:01 am
Post by Anon » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:11 am
I believe that online Dating just works if you are into the exact same town, perhaps state/region, perhaps not various nations. Like happens to be sa woman that is natural truly would like to proceed through along with it cougarlife.com. What amazes and scares me personally in the exact same time is the fact that he’s had just about the same thing happen to him.
Quick version: do not also think of going here to marry her/him.
Post by Fubonis » Wed Jan 12, 2005 4:36 am
Fool me as soon as, pity on, pity for you. Fool me twice–can’t get tricked once more.
He never will if he has not learned from the first experience. Perchance you should make use of him before some foreigner can.
Post by Darth Wong » Wed Jan 12, 2005 6:58 am
Truth be told, after speaking with him, he generally seems to think that the blunder he fashioned with the past woman ended up being in perhaps perhaps perhaps not marrying her, so she felt no genuine dedication to him. Anything you may do is move your eyes.
Post by programhouze » Wed Jan 12, 2005 1:01 pm
In any event you appear at it, the man is or must certanly be “hard up” or something like that. I think the “Mail-order bride” deal is B.S. And a complete waste of personal and time that is emotional.
Just like the other individual stated, internet dating ought to be finished with your own personal basic area. There was instances when men and women have met from around the world and hitched. But, less than those couples which have met inside their own areas.